Ask No Questions
Thank you for your contribution to HIV disclosure to sex partners.
I don’t know about you but I am getting really tired of this ignorance, state of denial, call it what you want. I had a hook up with a few guys this past week and it was assumed we would fuck with no questions asked, no mention of HIV, no mention of anything. It was the sort of silence whereby if I raised this intentionally silenced topic, I felt as though I would be doing something wrong by questioning the need for a conversation or questions. I had the conversation regardless and was rejected at least three times. I don’t want to hang a sign around my neck saying I am HIV positive or go off randomly fucking with no questions asked. There has to be a middle ground. I hope so because I am tired of the constant allure and invitations for sex followed by rejection because I must fulfill my obligation as a gay man and disclose my HIV status. I know what I need to do, as I am always reminded that it is my duty to disclose. It is redundant. Why don’t others who meet up for sex know about their duties and obligations ?